ISSUES..ISSUES..

salam

TELEVISION

quite sometime since i last watches RTM 1 and 2. after astro came into my life, i thought there is no need for me to see that particular station. well..lots of reason..of course one of it is because this station has been severely abuse to air government propaganda against anyone that is not side with them.

not much of different right now but something interest me. i noted now there is a lot of short2 film that teach us the right value and inform us the current health issue and preventive measures. for me, this should be their main objective as to be a responsible TV stations. enough said.

MINISTERS

lately i notice that our minister are brave enough to say in public about their policy of not engaging with opposition held state. started with our DPM statement during the Manek Urai election, they simply say in public that if we are not with them, they will not help us in whatever ways. in the Manek Urai context: the bridge connecting manek urai baru and manek urai lama. they spoke without any shame as a leader that is suppose to take care of rakyat regardless of their affiliation. furthermore, manek urai is under KESEDAR and it is of course their obligation to provide the people there with the necessary needs.

the second one of course by our agricultural minister who dare says that everyone under his ministry are not allow to attend any function by the government of kedah, kelantan, penang and selangor. reason: the federal government pay their salary and the federal government give the money to do work so why bother to attend others' function. where is the spirit of federalism here? why can't he think for the rakyat beside for his own interest? hmm...

how about our information minister who deny the kelantanese their right to the 5% petronas profit from their offshore activity in Kelantan in his statement? why petronas just keep quite about this when their ex chairman (Tengku Razaleigh Hamzah) already giving his?

SCHOOL START AT FIVE YEARS OLD?

hmm..this one i need to check my facts first. as a general, why need to burden our child with an added compulsory schooling years when they can attend multiple types of kindergarten? is there any hidden agenda there? do we need to send our children to PASTI earlier than that? difficult2..

TEOH AGAIN..

he is currently in the middle of a lot of speculation that is trying not just to tarnish his image but also to tarnish the image of everyone near him. people think that for a big issue like this, is it proper just to have a low level of goverment servant to handle this? isn't that something too big for him to handle? an inquest by a Koroner only? is he daring enough to tell the people that MACC or the government is at fault in this if there is a fault on their side? hmm..pity him.

how about the hi ranking police officer who said in a paper that teoh' s death is almost certain sudden death (suicide) when the next day the DPP who assists in the inquest suddenly came out with a foreign DNA evidence and there are people trying to trap teoh's colleague to be the scapegoat? is this case already concluded?

ISA

which way to go? anti or pro? i like an article in malaysian insider with the topic 'ibarat melepaskan ibrahim ali tersepit'

I AM A MUSLIM

salam,

oh my goodness..here we go again..

i'm talking about the latest disastrous news in our country that is, the death of mr Teoh in the compound of the supposedly the most reliable agency in the country apart from police: MACC.

the sad point is, someone is trying to make this as a racial issue and this is not the first one and will never be the last one in our country.

the one who has all the power to inform our people the truth is using the media that they controlled to tell a lie and trying to deviate the important issue at hand into another racial issue. this is obviously done by someone who is desperate enough to cling into power because they know, in Malaysia, racial sentiment is always there to be manipulated to gain support. in this issue, they are trying to rally all the malay behind them against the other in an issue that is supposedly about fairness above all and not about race at all.

of course they get the support that they wanted from the ground whenever they use the issue and is gaining the momentum with the statement by other leaders in the government that strengthened the believe that this issue is about race. i pity to all of the people that was skewed with this believe and i feel ashamed with them for that.

i am pleased with the statement from our leader in PR that maintained their stand in the issue that is seeking justice for anyone that is being mistreated by any agency or anyone in the country. truth must be trace and reveal.

i, myself, hate to say that i am sick with people who is always play with racial cards. we as muslim fully understand and really believe that everyone deserved just and fairness regardless of their background. no one is superior to the other in term of race. i believe that anyone who play with racial cards will only seeking hatred and injustice. only through islam that we can see the true justice. a muslim will never mistreated someone else just because they are not part of them. there is no colours in islam. islam is for all and everyone deserved the best treatment in islam.

if anyone can ever consider himself as a muslim, i won't think he will ever be trying to incite hatred inside other people's heart. inciting hatred has never been islamic way of life. islam is about peace and love. what has been done by the people with power to incite the fear and hatred is obviously not an islamic way and i doubt it wether this people has ever think as a muslim before they do this if considering he is one of us -a muslim-.

our beloved prophet has never treat his sahabat by colours. if that is the case, Bilal bin Rabah will never be there beside Rasulullah to be one of the most important figure in islam. there will never be a persian or jews in his followers's list if he think that way. can anyone learn from this simple concept of universalism?

why did anyone as powerful as they are resorting in this kind of tactics time and again. it must be poor greed and greed will only let us into despair and destruction.

may Allah save us from this kind of people

YANG USANG DAN REMEH..

assalamualaikum..

dalam entry sebelum ini, saya ada nyatakan yang saya sedang dalam pencarian untuk mempelajari sejarah Malaysia..hmm..pencarian saya baru bermula dengan membaca sejarah negeri kedah melalui salah satu blog yang dicadangkan oleh salah seorang sahabat..
di sini saya bukanlah ingin menceritakan semula apa yang saya baca..kerana saya sendiri masih lagi konpius dengan apa yang saya baca..
cuma saya ingin berkongsi kesimpulan yang saya dapat setakat hari ini..

SEJARAH...
boleh ditulis oleh sesiapa sahaja samada oleh orang kebanyakan atau yang menggelar diri mereka pengkaji sejarah..cara bagaimana ia ditulis ia sangat bergantung kepada kewarasan, kejujuran dan keikhlasan si penulis..si penulis boleh menulis dengan sejujur-jujurnya..atau dia juga boleh diupah untuk memesongkan sejarah..tidak sedikit fakta-fakta sejarah yang dilenyapkan oleh pihak-pihak tertentu..tidak mustahil ia ditokok tambah dengan 'cerita dongeng' untuk melindungi fakta yang sebenar..

di sini mungkin akan menimbulkan persoalan di kalangan individu..apa untungnya sejarah dipesongkan? apa pula pentingnya sejarah pada generasi kini? yang dah berlalu biarlah ia berlalu, kenapa harus berpaling ke belakang meniliti sejarah hitam putih itu?

jawabnya senang..
jika hari ini kita tidak mempedulikan sejarah, suatu hari nanti anak cucu kita akan hilang jatidiri.. jika hari ini anda meremehkan sejarah, 'kemelayuan' yang kita banggakan akan sirna ditelan arus ciptaan penjajah dan pemerintah sekular. jika hari ini anda menganggap sejarah itu lapuk dan usang, anda akan ditipu seumur hidup anda..

ayah seorang pesara guru kini berusia 73 tahun..sejak dari dulu dia sentiasa mempromosikan buku2 sejarahnya yang disusun kemas dalam almarinya kepada saya..buku-buku tu pun dah kelihatan usang dan kekuningan ditelan waktu..saya kira sudah tiba masanya untuk saya menyahut saranan ayah saya...

p/s: semakin berminat dengan sejarah..:)

TIPAH TERTIPU!!!!

Assalamualaikum..

semasa saya di tingkatan 5, saya amat tidak meminati sejarah..setiap kali saya buka buku teks sejarah saya akan di serang sindrom mengantuk yang amat sangat..begitu juga sewaktu cikgu mengajar di kelas..saya tidak begitu ambil kisah apa sahaja ‘fakta’ yang diceriterakan kepada saya..saya sendiri tidak hirau samada cerita ‘sejarah’ itu benar atau tidak (lebih kepada assumption bahawa setiap ayat dalam buku teks sejarah itu benar belaka dan tidak ada yang tidak benar..) saya belajar sejarah hanya untuk lulus SPM dengan baik..dan Alhamdulillah, saya lulus SPM dengan baik, walaupun subjek sejarah saya hanya cukup-cukup nyawa saja..

melalui buku teks sejarah itu saya diberitahu Mustafa Kamal Ataturk ialah bapa kemodenan turki..dia disanjung..pendek kata segala yang baik2 belaka tentang dia..pada ketika itu saya bangga kerana saya orang islam dan Ataturk juga orang islam..sehinggalah pada suatu hari semasa saya di matrikulasi, bilamana tiba-tiba saya terbaca tajuk artikel di akhbar : MUSTAFA KAMAL ATATURK PENGKHIANAT ISLAM. Saya terperanjat gajah..apa ni?

Perasaan ingin tahu saya mendorong saya membaca artikel tersebut..dan pembacaan saya itu mendorong saya untuk mencari maklumat yang lebih lanjut bagi mempastikan kesahihan bahawa manusia ini pengkhianat agama..(kontra sekali dengan apa yang saya belajar di tingkatan lima).

SAHIH.manusia inilah yang telah menjatuhkan khilafah Uthmaniah di turki..manu

sia inilah yang menjadi talibarut Inggeris dan yahudi menamatkan sistem pemerintahan Islam yang telah diamalkan sejak zaman rasulullah saw..manusia ini jugalah yang telah men’sekular’kan segala sisitem yang ada di turki..manusia inilah yang telah memisahkan ajaran islam dari kehidupan..pendek kata manusia yang bernama Mustafa kamal atatruk ini adalah &%$#@!!!!

Betapa saya telah tertipu..dan saya terasa ditipu dan dikhianati..

Hari ini, setelah lebih dari sedekad saya meninggalkan subjek sejarah di sekolah, saya kembali ingin mempelajari sejarah..bukan untuk lulus peperiksaan, tetapi untuk saya mengenal jatidiri saya dan saya tidak lagi mahu ditipu..

Dalam pencarian (yang baru saja bermula) saya menemui ini :

Sebagai arsitek kemerdekaan, memang Tunku Abdul rahman adalah seorang tokoh yang konsisten pendiriannya tentap konsep Negara sekular. Menurutnya:

“in a previous statement a made on religion I mentioned thet this country is a SECULAR state. It means that it is not a muslim state. Islam is the official in this country, but other religions have a right to play their part as far as religion concern.”

Kata beliau selanjutnya: “ a muslim state for Malaysia is definitely out of question, though the muslims would like to see this happen. We have to consider the other races who have helped the country achieved independence.”

(dipetik dari buku Pemikiran Islam di Malaysia oleh Abdul Rahman haji Abdullah-anda boleh baca selanjutnya dengan menaip nama buku di google books)

Ini menguatkan lagi azam saya untuk mempelajari sejarah terutamanya sejarah negara saya sendiri..kerana saya cintakan negara saya dan saya juga cintakan kebenaran..

TOTAL FAILURE

salam.

well..well..many issues came out lately partly due to the incoming election in manek urai. first, it was about the biasiswa national and the scrapping of 30% requirement of bumiputra share in international company. then come the reverted PPSMI followed by the extravagant style of telling the world he is already 100 days in office and doing a lot of things and last night, the announcement by our TPM that they want to make Manek Urai the agropolitan constituency ONLY IF BN WIN.

the one (actually two)that interested me the most is of course the PPSMI and the biasiswa issue. for me who came from the rural area this two issues are very personal.

Firstly, PPSMI.

personally, it is not about the language per se in this issue. the failure of our government to make good out of this is somehow saddened me. of course there are a lot of pressure regarding the issue of reverting this programme but from what has happened recently we know that this is a failure from day 1 of it implementation. why? instead of improving our children in two front that is english and science/maths, they force our children to move backwards and left behind especially the rural children. the disadvantages that they have was worsened by a poor execution of a good programme. at the end, they are not only inferior in english, maths or science, they are inferior in everything including the education system in their place.

many of us, especially the malays who is always thought to be the worst in english will feel happy when they scrapped the programme but at the same time, they, the government, fail us again. it is obvious that they don't do enough work to make this a success. when i read about our teachers' -partially the black sheep- profiency in english standard was somewhat pathetic (as how they show it), i feel more saddened. what happen with our think tank up there? why such a big programme like this is eventually thrown into the drain after six years. a failure is a failure. there is no such thing as not achieving target.

don't we have enough experts in teaching methodology in our country that can properly draw a good plan for this to be a success in the first place? of course the movement to abolish this programme is justified with this kind of failure. such a good opportunity for our children to get an advantages was ruin by a poorly executed programme. i personally think that there will be no movement to abolish the programme if it was a success. of course everyone will be very happy to see their child proficient in english (i think so).

i really hope that they make good with the announcement of revamping the english teaching strategy in our country. i don't want to here the same old story that our people is not competitive enough to enter the job market due to poor english profiency. i dont want to hear our people that come out from the university dont even have a basic english communication skill.

eventhough many are championing for our language (including the leaders), the reality is our leaders fail us in making sure our mother tongue can succeed even in our country. it is very difficult to go back and to make sure everyone use the language in everything. it is just like barking to a wrong tree. at one side we are trying to preserve our mother tongue but at the other end everything that was done by the leaders was actually destroying the path for us to preserve it. our industries and the big player in our company are already fast becoming an english speaking field that make us left behind if we dont prepare for it. there is the unwritten policy that the job applicants for the international company in our own country must proficient in english.

so what to do..it is a win-lose-lose for us

at the end of the day, it was all about a poor management and poor leadership again.

to be continued...

ANTARA DUA MASJID

“abang, tengok tuh…” muncung bibir saya mengunjukkan sepasang pengantin baru sedang bergambar dengan baju pengantin mereka di perkarangan sebuah masjid..posing dengan macam-macam gaya ala-ala model majalah pengantin gitu…saya kira pasangan ini baru berkahwin mengupah khas jurugambar professional untuk merakamkan detik-detik indah awal bergelar suami isteri…
Tidak lama selepas itu, datang pula sepasang lagi pengantin, yang perempuan lengkap dengan kebaya mendedahkan tangan melalui kain lace yang jarang..lelaki segak pulak menutup aurat dengan baju melayu bersampin dan bertengkolok..

Ya..masjid itu sentiasa dikunjungi orang ramai..yang ingin melihat ‘keindahan’ dan ‘kilauan kristal’nya…dengan replica masjid-masjid terkenal diseluruh dunia..tidak kurang ramai juga yang kagum dengan senibinanya…hatta pelancong dari luar negara juga tidak melepaskan peluang mengunjungi masjid tersebut dengan skirt pendek dan t-shirt tanpa lengan..(mungkin di beri jubah sebelum masuk ke dalam ruang solat)
Pengunjung masing-masing dengan kamera di tangan berposing di segenap penjuru masjid dan perkarangannya..sekumpulan remaja lelaki dan perempuan bergaul mesra bergambar bersama-sama..

Timbul persoalan di benak saya (dan suami) apa tujuan sebenar orang-orang ini singgah di sini? Untuk solatkah? atau tujuan utamanya untuk bergambar kenang-kenangan..solat itu hanya sampingan pelengkap syarat..?

Seusai solat asar, kami pun meneruskan perjalanan..





Asar keesokan harinya, saya bersama ibu dan ayah singgah untuk solat di sebuah masjid yang sudah biasa kami singgahi..masjidnya biasa-biasa..tipikal masjid di ceruk kampong..dari luar tiada apa yang kelihatan istimewa..tiada ‘kristal’..tiada taman tamadun..tiada yang ‘sudi’ merakamkan kenangan terindah mendirikan ‘masjid’ di situ (malah saya kelihatan janggal dan ganjil merakamkan gambar di perkarangan masjid)..hanya ada pepohon yang redup dan sebuah pondok kecil untuk pengunjung berehat-rehat seusai solat..sunyi..

namun..saya terasa damai di situ..azan berkumandang sejurus selepas kami tiba..berbondong-bondong pelajar sekolah agama rakyat (terletak di belakang masjid) datang untuk berjemaah..solat saya terasa lebih nikmat dan indah berbanding dgn asar hari sebelumnya..

saya mengambil kesimpulan mudah..antara dua darjat….

1. Masjid yang asasnya dibina untuk tujuan mengabdikan diri kepada ALLAH, ia akan terus-terusan berfungsi sebagai tempat hamba ALLAH mendekatkan diri kepadaNya..ia akan sentiasa dihiasi oleh amal2 yang indah..suasananya akan terus makmur dan damai..
2. Masjid yang asas dan tujuan asalnya dibina untuk tujuan pelancongan..dibina dengan tujuan bermegah2 (kononnya masjid itu indah dan ‘berkilau2’ pada waktu malam umpama Kristal) ia terus-terusan akan berfungsi sebagai tempat pelancongan..manusia datang bukan dengan tujuan utamanya untuk beribadah kepada ALLAH swt, tetapi datang semata-mata untuk ‘mengagumi’ keindahan sementara ciptaan manusia yang baharu..kilauan dan sinarnya tidak mungkin akan dapat dilihat sehingga ke langit yang ke tujuh..

Saya bernekad di dalam hati..saya tidak mahu lagi menyinggahi masjid yang dibina untuk tujuan pelancongan dan bermegah-megah..saya hanya mahu singgah dan solat di rumah ALLAH yang mulia…

Wallahua’lam..:)

KISAH SEBATANG POKOK DAN SEORANG MANUSIA

assalamualaikum...

sejak sebulan lalu setiap pagi dan petang saya berjalan kaki dari rumah ke tempat kerja (exercise le kononnya). saya tidak pernah perasan 'kewujudan' dua batang pokok di tepi jalan (depan rumah saya) sehinggalah beberapa minggu selepas saya mula berjalan.

mulai hari itu, setiap kali saya pergi dan balik saya akan sentiasa merenung dan berfikir tentang pokok-pokok itu..

dua pokok ini sudah pun mati pada hakikatnya...tiada lagi dedaun hijau yang keluar darinya..pohon itu juga kekeringan...

tapi kan...

ada banyak tumbuh-tumbuhan lain yang menumpang hidup padanya...memberikan kehijauan pada pokok yang telah mati itu...

lalu setiap kali saya memandang pokok itu, fikiran saya terlayang membandingkan nasib pokok itu dengan nasib saya..

pokok itu walaupun sudah mati, dia tetap dapat memberikan kehidupan kepada tumbuh-tumbuhan lain...

jika saya mati hari ini, bisakah saya terus memberikan kehidupan pada orang lain?

pokok itu walau telah mati, masih ada yang sudi hidup dan memberikan rona hijau pada batang tubuhnya..

jika saya mati pada hari ini, adakah amal saya yang bisa memberikan 'kehidupan' kepada saya sepanjang perjalan alam barzakh menuju alam
akhirat?


"Apabila mati seseorang anak Adam, terputuslah amalannya kecuali tiga perkara, sedekah jariah, ilmu yang diambil orang manfaatnya dan anak yang soleh mendoakannya."
(Hadis Riwayat Muslim)

THE FLOATING PRAYING MAT!!

Many of us should notice this news circulating around since last saturday. the alleged floating praying mat picture that was alleged being taken by someone from Negeri Sembilan. it happened in the infamous Masjid Kristal. the famous masjid for tourist who come there just to take the picture.

i'm quite amused with the response from the state religious and information deputy committee chairman regarding the alleged incidence. of course there is no such thing as miracle in the hand of ALLAH and i have no qualm to accept it as something that really happen. the problem is the response that comes after the alleged incidence that fascinate me the most. the Terengganu chief imam use this incident to as a stepping stone to remind every muslim not to neglect their prayers the other guy there has other ideas and i'm agree with him for that.

of course what the imam said is true enough especially to everyone who come to the mosque just to have a look and sightseeing. i did notice that many who came to the mosque arejust coming to take picture. with a lack of respect towards thismosque, they come in buses with their aim just to have a picture or two there. they use the compound to have a rest and even dating. coples taking picture here and there. tourist going into the mosque for sightseeing is just something that i personally not very comfortable with.

we read the statement from the guy below will make us somehow clear what is actually the purpose of building this mosque in the first place. with all the speculation behind this mosque project and how its end up right now i'm afraid this mosque will loss it true function for ibadah and become a symbol for tourism. this makes me remember the similarity with another mosque more than 1400 years ago.

wallahua'lam

i'm quoting this from THE STAR 2 July 2009

"State religious and information deputy committee chairman Muhammad Ramli Nuh said the department was also keen to contact others who had witnessed the incident. “This is an interesting development and we want to get more facts and evidence from eye-witnesses,” he said yesterday.
He said the woman, who happened to visit Crystal Mosque, could provide crucial information as she was the first to capture the phenomenon.
“We want to authenticate whether she took the photograph or obtained it from a third party.”
Muhammad Ramli said the unexplained event could be a divine sign, thus more details were required to enable the state religious department to do the necessary.
“If it actually happened, it could bring about a positive development for Crystal Mosque. Visitors would start making a beeline to the site if the facts and the photograph could be authenticated by a religious body,” he said.

SAKIT TERUJUK (REFERRED PAIN)

argh..tetiba mata saya terasa seperti sakit..sakitnya pula menular sehingga ke pelusuk hati..(macam referred pain pulak)
mata saya bukan ditusuk besi hatta dimasuki habuk sekalipun..
tetapi mata saya terasa sakit apabila seorang ibu membawa masuk anaknya ke dalam bilik konsultasi saya dengan tudung putih di kepala tetapi memakai t-shirt hijau yang kecil (bodyfit) dan lengannya yang panjang itu terdedah sampai ke bahu..Ugh!! sungguh menyakitkan mata saya..
selesai saya memeriksa anaknya yang kurang sihat, saya menyerahkan preskripsi ubat..
"dik, doktor nak tegur sikit, harap adik tak marah ye..."
spontan dengan wajah kehairanan dia memandang wajah saya..
"tak salah adik nak pakai t-shirt dengan jeans..dengan syarat menutup aurat..lain kali, pakailah t-shirt lengan panjang dan longgar, ye.."
langsung dia tersipu-sipu..

sungguh, waktu itu saya langsung tidak boleh menahan mulut saya ini dari menegur..tak cukup rasanya menidakkan yang mungkar itu sekadar didalam hati..ntah dari mana saya memperolehi kekuatan untuk bersuara..

fullstop.

saya tidak boleh fullstop di sini...

semasa saya google image mencari gambar wanita melayu, penemuan saya telah menyebabkan saya hampir mendapat serangan jantung...tertera gambar2 wanita2 remaja melayu yang beraksi lucah dan bogel (saya tidak sengaja, ya..)

APA AGAKNYA SUDAH TERJADI DENGAN ANAK2 PEREMPUAN KITA ?

Allahuakbar....

saya tidak boleh fullstop di sini..kita tidak boleh fullstop di sini..banyak lagi perkara lain yang perlu kita lakukan untuk mencegah kemungkaran ini!!

(nafas saya kembali lega bila saya google search 'wanita islam')

TERLAJAK..TERLANJUR..TER..ERRR....

ibu hamil itu masih lagi muda..seusia dengan anak saudara saya..saya membelek buku antenatal berwarna merah jambu itu..
tertulis di dalamnya "refer doctor for uterus larger than date" lalu saya menyemak tarikh akhir haidh ibu hamil tersebut..
"anak sulung, ya dik?" tanya saya.. dia mengangguk tanpa bersuara..
"tarikhnya pasti ke dik?"
"pasti doktor.." suaranya seperti teragak-agak mahu menjawab..
saya semak tarikh perkahwinan..
"baik dik, adik baring..saya akan buat pemeriksaan"
hasil dari palpation saya dapati saiz perutnya tidak selari dengan tarikh akhir haidh yang diberi..lalu saya terus melakukan ultrasound..mana tahu, kot-kot twin pregnancy..tapi hasilnya sangat mengecewakan saya..
sebaik sahaja ibu muda tadi kembali duduk di kerusinya, dimulakan dengan menarik nafas panjang saya mula bertanya..
"dik, kalau ikut tarikh akhir haidh yang adik beri, sekarang adik mengandung 8minggu.." saya 'pause' untuk beri ruang ibu muda itu 'bernafas'..kemudian saya sambung, "tapi bila kita buat pemeriksaan dan ultrasound scan doktor dapati bayi dalam kandungan adik sudah pun berusia 20 minggu.."
saya perhatikan reaksinya..nampak masih lagi selamba...
"kalau ikut tarikh kahwin, adik baru dua bulan bernikah, betul kan?" saya menduga..
"betul doktor.."
"sekarang ni doktor nak tanya adik..doktor minta adik bercakap benar..adik mengandung sebelum nikah k?" saya bertanya direct...dia tertunduk..

*****

saya bekerja di sebuah tempat yang di consider pedalaman..kampung..taraf sosioekonomi penduduknya rendah..bukannya di bandar besar..mahu ke alor setar pun mengambil masa lebih kurang sejam..kalau di ajak saudara mara atau kawan2 bertandang ke rumah pun ramai yang bersungut jauh...

saya baru 2 tahun di sini..tetapi, kes-kes seperti di atas seringkali saya temui..dah tak terbilang dah rasanya...(fed up pun ada bila jumpa kes-kes macam ni)

semak otak saya memikirkan apakah ayat-ayat terbaik utk saya sedarkan mereka ini bahawa mereka telah melakukan dosa besar iaitu berzina..sakit hati bila melihat muka selamba takde rasa bersalah/malu bila kita sebutkan bahawa zina itu dosa besar..(buleh rilekk sengih selambe dekk)

ada tak sesiapa yang boleh bagi idea yang PRAKTIKAL kepada saya?

hakikatnya perkara yang telah berlaku telah pun berlaku..ibarat kata pepatah..terlajak perahu boleh di undur..terlajak laku, binasa badan...

yang penting, remaja2 seperti ini harus ditanam dalam hati dan minda mereka kesedaran untuk bertaubat dengan taubat nasuha..kesedaran untuk tidak mengulangi zina..dan kesedaran untuk memelihara dan mendidik anak luar nikah yang dikandungnya (anak itu suci, tidak berdosa) mengenal ALLAH..mengenal dosa dan pahala..mengenal syurga dan neraka..mengenal musuh (nafsu dan syaitan durjana)..

tidak guna memarahi, meleteri mereka..

tidak guna si ibu atau si bapa mengamuk2 membuang anak, membuang saudara...kerana amukan seperti itu hanya akan menambahjauhkan jarak mereka dan menyukarkan perjalanan taubat mereka...

jangan dihina remaja2 ini..dekati mereka..cuba bermesra dengan mereka..berikan nasihat yang lembut tetapi tegas..

saya menarik nafas panjang...saya renung mata ibu muda tadi..dengan harapan dia sedar dan menyesal dengan apa yang dia telah lakukan..saya doakan, rumahtangga yang didirikan bersama suaminya itu tidak berantakan di pertengahan jalan..saya mendoakan mereka suami isteri bertaubat dengan taubat nasuha..saya juga mendoakan, anak yang bakal lahir itu akan membesar menjadi mujahid/mujahidah pembela ISLAM dan umat (walaupun lahir dari perhubungan yang dimurkai ALLAH)..

saya terkenangkan dua anak dara saya di rumah, " Ya ALLAH...peliharalah dan lindungilah anak-anakku...tiada sebaik-baik pelindung melainkan Engkau, wahai Tuhan Yang Maha Agung.."